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		By: Glenda Larke		</title>
		<link>https://glendalarke.com/2008/06/is-it-so-strange-that-i-speak-langauge/#comment-22432</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Glenda Larke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 18:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lol, Hisham. You have no idea how many times I hear that: &quot;Where are you from?&quot; question! I usually answer &quot;Selangor&quot;!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;And I absolutely agree with you on the swearing...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lol, Hisham. You have no idea how many times I hear that: &#8220;Where are you from?&#8221; question! I usually answer &#8220;Selangor&#8221;!</p>
<p>And I absolutely agree with you on the swearing&#8230;</p>
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		By: Anonymous		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 12:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Heh, reminds me of how I&#039;ve met or spoken to a number of Caucasians in Malaysia before, and usually the first question I ask is &quot;where are you from?&quot; especially if they have a faint/indistinct accent. That is, until one of them replied &quot;I&#039;ve lived here all my life.&quot;&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Although, on a related note, I hate it when foreigners get all surprised when they hear that English is my first language, and that I read English novels extensively. I guess neither side is guilt-free when it comes to making assumptions.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Oh and swearing in English is much more satisfying. I mean, imagine saying &#039;lubang buntut&#039; in lieu of &#039;a$$hole&#039; (pardon the language), or some kind of equivalent to the widely used four letter f-word that indicates intercourse. It loses its... luster, somehow.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heh, reminds me of how I&#8217;ve met or spoken to a number of Caucasians in Malaysia before, and usually the first question I ask is &#8220;where are you from?&#8221; especially if they have a faint/indistinct accent. That is, until one of them replied &#8220;I&#8217;ve lived here all my life.&#8221;</p>
<p>Although, on a related note, I hate it when foreigners get all surprised when they hear that English is my first language, and that I read English novels extensively. I guess neither side is guilt-free when it comes to making assumptions.</p>
<p>Oh and swearing in English is much more satisfying. I mean, imagine saying &#8216;lubang buntut&#8217; in lieu of &#8216;a$$hole&#8217; (pardon the language), or some kind of equivalent to the widely used four letter f-word that indicates intercourse. It loses its&#8230; luster, somehow.</p>
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		By: Glenda Larke		</title>
		<link>https://glendalarke.com/2008/06/is-it-so-strange-that-i-speak-langauge/#comment-22430</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Glenda Larke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 16:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hrugaar - no, unsurprised. Amused maybe, at my atrocious language skills. Guess they expect someone to be a local until such time as they open their mouths.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Amy - I had forgotten that from A Town Like Alice. Apropos of nothing, did you know one scene in the film aroused a lot of ire here, when the heroine&#039;s Malay &quot;father&quot; kissed her goodbye. It was not something a Malay man in those circumstances would ever have done! It felt awfully &quot;wrong&quot; in context, even to me, and a Muslim man in those days would never have done it.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I also am longing to see my books back in publication in the US too. but, like you - I am patient. If I can&#039;t find a publisher to re-issue Havenstar, I will organise a PoD publication one day. I can&#039;t even offer to send you a copy, because I only have 2 of my own!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;At Swancon in March someone came up to me at the booksigning with a pristine copy that had a cover somehow laminated - a library copy that had been released into the wild. They paid a couple of dollars and couldn&#039;t believe their luck!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Kendall, I think people here assume that all white people are tourists, but in actual fact there are thousands of  residents working or living here like me who speak the language to some degree or another.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hrugaar &#8211; no, unsurprised. Amused maybe, at my atrocious language skills. Guess they expect someone to be a local until such time as they open their mouths.</p>
<p>Amy &#8211; I had forgotten that from A Town Like Alice. Apropos of nothing, did you know one scene in the film aroused a lot of ire here, when the heroine&#8217;s Malay &#8220;father&#8221; kissed her goodbye. It was not something a Malay man in those circumstances would ever have done! It felt awfully &#8220;wrong&#8221; in context, even to me, and a Muslim man in those days would never have done it.</p>
<p>I also am longing to see my books back in publication in the US too. but, like you &#8211; I am patient. If I can&#8217;t find a publisher to re-issue Havenstar, I will organise a PoD publication one day. I can&#8217;t even offer to send you a copy, because I only have 2 of my own!</p>
<p>At Swancon in March someone came up to me at the booksigning with a pristine copy that had a cover somehow laminated &#8211; a library copy that had been released into the wild. They paid a couple of dollars and couldn&#8217;t believe their luck!</p>
<p>Kendall, I think people here assume that all white people are tourists, but in actual fact there are thousands of  residents working or living here like me who speak the language to some degree or another.</p>
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		By: Amy Sisson		</title>
		<link>https://glendalarke.com/2008/06/is-it-so-strange-that-i-speak-langauge/#comment-22429</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amy Sisson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 22:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I didn&#039;t make it clear -- I really shouldn&#039;t post today at all!  I meant that most paperbacks that have been a library copy don&#039;t hold together well.  Paperbacks in general do fine, of course.  ;-)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t make it clear &#8212; I really shouldn&#8217;t post today at all!  I meant that most paperbacks that have been a library copy don&#8217;t hold together well.  Paperbacks in general do fine, of course.  😉</p>
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		By: Amy Sisson		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amy Sisson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 22:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Jo, thank you for the info re: Amazon UK.  Alas, there are only two copies under 20 pounds; one is &quot;acceptable&quot; but &quot;ex-library&quot; (and in my experience as a librarian, most paperbacks don&#039;t stay &quot;acceptable&quot;) and the other does not offer international delivery, apparently.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;But I feel confident I will get my hands on a copy!  I just recently found a 1945 book I&#039;d been searching for online for over 10 years.  When it comes to find books, I can be patient.  ;-)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jo, thank you for the info re: Amazon UK.  Alas, there are only two copies under 20 pounds; one is &#8220;acceptable&#8221; but &#8220;ex-library&#8221; (and in my experience as a librarian, most paperbacks don&#8217;t stay &#8220;acceptable&#8221;) and the other does not offer international delivery, apparently.</p>
<p>But I feel confident I will get my hands on a copy!  I just recently found a 1945 book I&#8217;d been searching for online for over 10 years.  When it comes to find books, I can be patient.  😉</p>
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		By: Jo		</title>
		<link>https://glendalarke.com/2008/06/is-it-so-strange-that-i-speak-langauge/#comment-22427</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 17:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Not at all Kendall, I do the same thing. Having once been stuck in a country where I didn&#039;t speak the language (I eventually found someone who spoke French which helped) I vowed never to go to a country without some knowledge of the language. It is generally appreciated by the people of the country as well.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not at all Kendall, I do the same thing. Having once been stuck in a country where I didn&#8217;t speak the language (I eventually found someone who spoke French which helped) I vowed never to go to a country without some knowledge of the language. It is generally appreciated by the people of the country as well.</p>
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		By: Anonymous		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anonymous]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 16:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Is there more variety in ethnicity and/or nationality in the English-speaking countries you&#039;re thinking of, than in Malaysia?  Is white skin (or white skin coupled with knowledge of the language) really that rare?  If so, then I understand the surprise--though I also understand your frustration.  ;-)&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;The U.S. has (had?) a reputation as a kind of melting pot, so you can&#039;t presume nationality (let alone language knowledge) based on skin color.  (Obviously, some idiots do....)  I feel in the USA, anyway, one has to presume someone speaks English until proven otherwise--that it&#039;s usually impolite (or downright rude, depending on the situation) to presume someone doesn&#039;t speak English based on something silly like how they look.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I also feel it&#039;s absurd to live somewhere without speaking the language.  Going on a 10ish day vacation in Italy, years ago, I picked up a simpel Berlitz 1 tape + booklet and a separate phrase book.  The former was to learn a few veeeeery basic things; the latter was in case I ran into a situation (or my bad memory!) I didn&#039;t know words for.  Am I weird?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is there more variety in ethnicity and/or nationality in the English-speaking countries you&#8217;re thinking of, than in Malaysia?  Is white skin (or white skin coupled with knowledge of the language) really that rare?  If so, then I understand the surprise&#8211;though I also understand your frustration.  😉</p>
<p>The U.S. has (had?) a reputation as a kind of melting pot, so you can&#8217;t presume nationality (let alone language knowledge) based on skin color.  (Obviously, some idiots do&#8230;.)  I feel in the USA, anyway, one has to presume someone speaks English until proven otherwise&#8211;that it&#8217;s usually impolite (or downright rude, depending on the situation) to presume someone doesn&#8217;t speak English based on something silly like how they look.</p>
<p>I also feel it&#8217;s absurd to live somewhere without speaking the language.  Going on a 10ish day vacation in Italy, years ago, I picked up a simpel Berlitz 1 tape + booklet and a separate phrase book.  The former was to learn a few veeeeery basic things; the latter was in case I ran into a situation (or my bad memory!) I didn&#8217;t know words for.  Am I weird?</p>
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		By: Jo		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 15:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Amy, Amazon.uk has it cheaper than that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy, Amazon.uk has it cheaper than that.</p>
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		By: Amy Sisson		</title>
		<link>https://glendalarke.com/2008/06/is-it-so-strange-that-i-speak-langauge/#comment-22424</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amy Sisson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 12:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[umm, that would be &quot;buy&quot;, not &quot;by&quot;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[umm, that would be &#8220;buy&#8221;, not &#8220;by&#8221;]</p>
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		By: Amy Sisson		</title>
		<link>https://glendalarke.com/2008/06/is-it-so-strange-that-i-speak-langauge/#comment-22423</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amy Sisson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 12:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Ha!  I just flashed back to A Town Like Alice, when everyone is so surprised that Jean speaks Malay.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;On another note, my copy of Song of the Shiver Barrens arrived from the U.K. (I&#039;m in the U.S.)  So I now have Shadow and Song both to read.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I haven&#039;t been able to find a copy of Havenstar for under $50-80.  I would even by it in German, even though I would struggle mightily to be able to read it that way, but even the German edition is near-impossible to get!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I hope to see more of your books published in the U.S.  ;-)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha!  I just flashed back to A Town Like Alice, when everyone is so surprised that Jean speaks Malay.</p>
<p>On another note, my copy of Song of the Shiver Barrens arrived from the U.K. (I&#8217;m in the U.S.)  So I now have Shadow and Song both to read.</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t been able to find a copy of Havenstar for under $50-80.  I would even by it in German, even though I would struggle mightily to be able to read it that way, but even the German edition is near-impossible to get!</p>
<p>I hope to see more of your books published in the U.S.  😉</p>
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